You Can't Make Everyone Happy All of the Time

Today I find myself wondering how one becomes popular in porn.  Is it based on looks?  Is it acting ability?  Or is it something else all together?  I suppose it will always remain a mystery to me.

I have emailed with and talked to a number of porn stars.  For the most part everyone has been really great and approachable.  I have been amazed at how a lot of porn stars make themselves accessable to their fans.  It's really kind of cool.

Then today happened.  I "met" (meaning got an email back on myspace) from a prima donna bitch.  Basically, she felt it was okay to be nasty with me because I gave a less than favorable review to one of her movies.  One movie out of four or five of hers I have reviewed.  Guess she wants everyone to love her all the time and kiss her ass and tell her how great she is every moment of the day.  The thing is, the movie in question I didn't give it a negative review.  I didn't give it a good one either.  I stated right off I didn't get it and didn't know what to make of it.  In her mind that makes a negative review.  Whatever.  There is no mistaking my negative reviews and this wasn't one of them.  If she didn't want to do the interview that I emailed her about she could have just said she wasn't interested and be done with it.  Instead she had to be a total self-absorbed bitch about it all.  But, you know, that's okay because as far as she is concerned I am nobody important.  I am just some silly porn reviewer who is trying to get an interview where I can talk to a pornstar.  Once again, whatever.  I am not that easily starstruck and I refuse to give someone respect based on their status, respect is something that is earned.  I don't care who you are.

I guess I shouldn't be surprised.  I was told early on by someone rather respected in the adult industry that a lot of the women in porn are flakey and difficult to deal with. 

I know I shouldn't take it all personaly.  It's just aggravating as hell.  I just have real problems with people who think they are better than someone for whatever reason.  It's people like that who make life difficult for other people, sometimes on purpose.  It's because of people like this that over time I have become less and less of a people person.  When I emailed her back I was a bit of a bitch, and I probably shouldn't have been.  I probably should have been more professional.  Today, I don't care.  Tomorrow I probably won't care either.  She could have been more professional as well.